Saturday, October 31, 2009

something i noticed

hmm, i noticed that... we, human... always see negative things more important/1st to come compare to positive stuff... well... you see... in a relationship, when he/she is doing all the great stuff, the other one will just like : aww~ you're so sweet, i love you... but when he/she made a mistake, arguement will come~ or like cold war ~ don't talk at all and stuff... yar, i understand that we all will feel angry or somehow disappointed when your partner made a mistake that you never liked/never wish he/she will make... but... a mistake can wipe off all the great moments you guys had? those great stuff he/she did? well, i can't really comment much cause i'm a single guy... i never faced those tornado, typhoon, cold war, ice age!! with the other person... so... that's just my opinion lar, why ppl can ignore all the goods because of 1 bad? >.<

ok, let's not talk bout relationship ones... talk bout normal family stuff... example, school results... no matter how many As you get, they just feel happy for you or like ask you to maintain it... but once you failed any subject, words like : see, ask you study dun wan, everyday play play play... now fail d lar... or like : how can you fail?? never study?? or stuff like that... not to say ALL but seldom will have like : oh, you failed? just try harder next time and score better.... seldom you'll see parents focus more on improvements than grades...

next thing is bout housecore, no matter how clean you cleaned the house, they will like just... wa, you cleaned those? not bad not bad, keep it up... but once they felt that bit of dust, then started to scold : you everyday at home, very busy hor? dunno how to clean the house ah ?!?! gosh... i'm so sick of ppl not appreciating.... not just family, but friends also... haiz... life....shit mann... when will it change to become better?

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