developing a good habit or self hypnotise ??

hmm, actually... i'm trying to help everyone to develop a good habit... but... it seems like it's a kind of self hypnosis also... haha....

basically... the point i wanna touch is... nowadays... many teenagers are going to the bad side?? >.< ok, you see... now, many teenagers, when they're doing any housework/house chores, they somehow think that they're not supposed to do those stuff, those stuff suppose to be done by maids or some other ppl... when they're doing it, they always question themselves, why am i doing this?? or tell themselves that they're not supposed to be there doing such thing or something like that... alright... this is a way i'm gonna teach you ppl...

try to develop a good stuff into yourself =) you might think i'm stupid, or just being too kind... but one day, you'll see the effect =)

example 1 : washing dishes
oh well, i guess this is the 2nd most hating part of all? haha... some ppl always think that washing dishes should be done by the maid or the last person who leaves the dining table? what i wanna say is... no matter you're number what of the person who leaves the table, you're responsibled to wash part of the dishes... if you're not washing all, at least wash your own tableware? and... instead of asking yourself why you should do that, you should tell yourself that you're part of the family and you're actually doing something to lessen the others' burden...

oh ya, and there's something i learnt from camp, or rather what i applied in camp... for ppl who went in ns, you should know that after every meal you have to wash your own cup/plate/bowl and etc... and ya, there's always some useless nuts who leave their stuff in the sink without washing them... this is the part you should think positively... i always wash those stuff, the thing running in my mind wasn't something like " if i washed these, then the jurulatih won't punish us " but something like " if i washed these, i'm actually helping some other ppl indirectly, maybe... someday there'll be someone helping me without me noticing it " and this is the part where majority thinks i'm stupid... haha... out of 16 person, only 3 person somehow amazed by me and start practising what i'm doing all the time... the rest think the 4 of us are nuts... lolz

example 2 : cleaning your own room
aww, this is the most angry thing ever... why on earth there's somebody don't want to clean their own room? if you're cleaning your own room from time to time, you're actually developing something good and for your own health too... without all the dust and germs in the air... and there's so many teenagers letting the maid/parents to clean their room? gosh... think with your brain la... ya, i know you're rich... what also got maid, but what if one day you suddenly bankrupt or somehow your house burnt down/got robbed or something bad happened?? when that happens, you'll have to clean up some mess, i believe many ppl still dunno how to rearrange a room... and ya, i just don't know how many/much kids/teenagers outside didn't realise how lucky they're because of what kind of family they're borned with...

example 3 : doing a small favor of your parents
ya ya ya, teenagers nowadays have their own world, their computers, their games and their girl/boy friends... but... sometimes you still have to know that your parents are sponsoring you or so call giving you pocket money " no offence to those who worked for themselves now " but i'm just taking the majority... do you feel annoyed when your dad ask you to take newspaper? or your mom ask you to take a knife for her to cut fruits? or just a cup of water/coffee ?? i bet sometimes you do feel annoying when your parents keep repeating your names in the air... but... try to think from their perspectives, they're just asking a small favor... can't you stop your computer games, smsing with your bf/gf, or the call you're making, or maybe the assignments you're rushing with?? imagine one day, WHAT IF they're gone... who else left for you to complete their favor?? respect and help them while you can =)

ahh, dunno why... these few days... really angry with what the majority teenagers are... so thoughtless... haiz... and i'm sad that i'm half of those? i mean i'm part of those but not fully someone who is useless... lolz...

no matter what you're doing for the others, you're actually developing something good... never question yourself with "why am i doing this/why should i do this" but tell yourself that you're helping the others by just doing a small favor... even washing a mountain of plates won't take you more than 2 hours... or cleaning the house... the max will take is half of a day... which you can do it during weekends or your holiday... ya ya .. maybe you're thinking... " i studied like mad, so hard for me to get holiday, i should be outside with my friends hanging out instead of doing house chores/work at home " nah~ you have plenty of time when you finished your studies... trust me... the chances of doing house chores are lesser than hanging out with your friends =)

oops, it's kinda a long post here... i guess i shall stop my anger and stop blogging by now... haha... enjoy and wait for the next post =P